At 6:00 a.m., you awake and the frenzy begins. You spend a little intimate time with your hubby, jump out of bed to awaken everyone in the household, barely make yourself presentable, prepare breakfast for the family, pack lunch for your kids, tend to all school notices to stay abreast of the constant requests, check email, and frantically leave the house to get the kids to the bus stop or drop them off at school. Phew! You sigh a bit to show your relief. Off to the office you go to spend your day generating an income.
It does not stop. After business hours, the mad dash continues. You pick up each child from school and take them to their respective sports and activities, head to the supermarket for the items missing for dinner, go home to prepare dinner, return to pick up your children, feed them, check homework, make them retire for the night just to start it all over again in a few hours.
The only down time you may have had was indulging in a cup of coffee while you were on your way to work. This is your daily routine. It is real and, on many days, it is unappealing. Can you relate? Do you have many days that resemble this?
You primarily tend to everyone's needs but your own. You make sure that your husband and children are well taken care of; however, the most important person is neglected. You. Priorities #1 and #2 (your children) are always cared for and priority #3 (your hubby) is somewhat happy. He is probably not as happy as he would like to be, but he is in a better place than you. You become priority #4. You have determined this. You have ensured that everyone in your household is in a good place, but you are unfulfilled because you are always the last priority. You have also trained your family to treat you this way. They have grown accustom to placing their needs above yours. This does not suggest that there isn't a lot of love in your household. There can be love, without respect for your peace of mind.
Quite a while ago, I made the conscious decision to become priority #1. I realized that I was at my best and able to give so much more to my family when I made self care important. This does not mean that I become a selfish person and sacrifice each of my family member's needs. Instead, it means that I will no longer forego the things that make me feel great and the things that make me whole. If visiting the hair and nail salon regularly to ensure that I look my best means that one of my children is unable to hang out with their friends, so be it. If working out on a Saturday morning means that my family needs to prepare breakfast for themselves, so be it. If the household budget needs to include a line item for fashion-related items that will build my confidence and make me feel fabulous, so be it. I am happy with me!
What things will you change to raise your priority level?
Be a priority,
Bri
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Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Add a Little Something Special to Your Blink
As a mom with two children, a husband and a business managed from my home, it is a major challenge to look good every day, but I TRY. There are days when I feel as though I do not have time to apply even a little makeup or dress stylishly; however, I force myself to do these things and ultimately I am happy that I had taken the time. I am certain that my husband and children do not want to return home and see me in the same pajamas I had on when they departed for school and work in the morning. Have you ever done this? Honestly, I also know that I need to keep my husband's interest and appearance plays a major role. I know he appreciates this! Trust me, it keeps the romance alive!!!
I have been searching for ways to consistently look great, without being a slave to makeup, and look seemingly natural. I scour the beauty industry to find new and exciting things that I can do to enhance my look. Although this is not new, the one popular non-surgical permanent beauty treatment that I will do is add eyelash extensions. The lashes are applied by a cosmetician who generally adds a single lash to each natural lash with an adhesive. The bond is designed to last until the natural lash falls out.
Lash extensions can be added to increase volume, length and color intensity. The length of time for the service is approximately one to two hours. The cost can range from $100 to $500, depending on the number of lashes used, the skill of the professional and the location and reputation of the salon. My understanding is that the re-applications are not as costly.
Make sure that you know to what you are committing. Take a look at the short video below. It demonstrates exactly how lashes are added.
Indulge me for a few seconds with a brief exercise. Close your eyes and envision the following:
To your mommy reinvention,
Sabrina
Suburban Mommy
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| Eyelash Extensions |
I have been searching for ways to consistently look great, without being a slave to makeup, and look seemingly natural. I scour the beauty industry to find new and exciting things that I can do to enhance my look. Although this is not new, the one popular non-surgical permanent beauty treatment that I will do is add eyelash extensions. The lashes are applied by a cosmetician who generally adds a single lash to each natural lash with an adhesive. The bond is designed to last until the natural lash falls out.
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| Eyelash Extensions |
Lash extensions can be added to increase volume, length and color intensity. The length of time for the service is approximately one to two hours. The cost can range from $100 to $500, depending on the number of lashes used, the skill of the professional and the location and reputation of the salon. My understanding is that the re-applications are not as costly.
Make sure that you know to what you are committing. Take a look at the short video below. It demonstrates exactly how lashes are added.
Indulge me for a few seconds with a brief exercise. Close your eyes and envision the following:
- Your eyebrows are tattooed to perfection so that you do not have to draw them in any longer.
- Your eyelashes are long, beautiful and dark where you no longer need mascara.
- All you need to do when you awaken is to add minimal makeup (eyeliner and lip gloss or lipstick) to complete your look.
- When you start your day, you look fabulous, and therefore feel fabulous.
Now open your eyes. Make your beauty appointments. Get ready to look even more fabulous than you already are.
To your mommy reinvention,
Sabrina
Suburban Mommy
Thursday, February 14, 2013
Facial Tattoo or No Facial Tattoo? That is the Question.
It's not what you think. I am talking about eyebrow tattoos (permanent makeup). I use to be so opposed to anything that wasn't naturally mine or that couldn't be altered with good old cosmetics. Now, don't get me wrong, I am such a girly girl. I love trying new skincare products, makeup, the latest nail polish colors and just being in-the-know of what's available to enhance my "natural" beauty. I get a rush from it. However, altering myself for the sake of beauty is a little scary.
As a busy mom, sometimes I neglect my beauty regimen and I am not proud to announce this. But, I am working diligently to change it. My goal is to look beautiful all of the time. This is not for my husband (well it is a little bit). This is primarily for me. You know the saying, "if you look good you will feel good". If I feel good, then my family would reap the benefits.
One of the areas I consistently focus on are my eyebrows. I believe they make or break my look. Fortunately, I have been blessed with well-shaped brows. However, within the last 3 - 4 years, I have had to use an eyebrow pencil to slightly enhance them. I am generally fine with my brows, but there are times when my day becomes hectic and I am unable to tend to them. I do not want to worry about this, so I am considering tattooing my brows.
Eyebrows are so crucial to our beauty. The shape, arch, thickness and color make a significant difference. For many women, tweezing and waxing eyebrows to get the right individual look for you, can wreak havoc on our brows over the years. Eventually, you may find that they just don't look as good as they once did. A great option to the fill-in-the-brows-with-an-eyebrow-pencil look is to tattoo your eyebrows.
Speaking of eyebrows, I love, love, love Meagan Good's brows. She recently admitted, on a daytime talk show, that they are tattooed. In her younger days, she shaved them so frequently they stopped growing. Tattooing her eyebrows was out of necessity.
Actress, Meagan Good
Check out this quick video demonstrating the process:
I am sure you are wondering about the advantages and the disadvantages. Here they are:
Advantages
Disadvantages
I am not going to list any costs because I identified various prices depending on the level and/or location of the salon.
My advice is to conduct thorough research before making the decision to get your eyebrows tattooed. Take time to investigate estheticians' credentials, references and portfolio. Also, visit the establishments to determine their cleanliness and processes relevant to completing this service. Once you have compiled all of your information, make a decision. Decide to do something for yourself and go for it!
So, if you are a mom who has little time to spend on applying makeup but wants to look good every moment of the day (at least with respect to your eyebrows), consider eyebrow tattoos. You will look FABULOUS without doing much.
Permanent makeup is scary to me, especially when it will be applied to my face. However, eyebrow tattooing is one that I will try.
To your mommy reinvention,
Sabrina
Suburban Mommy
As a busy mom, sometimes I neglect my beauty regimen and I am not proud to announce this. But, I am working diligently to change it. My goal is to look beautiful all of the time. This is not for my husband (well it is a little bit). This is primarily for me. You know the saying, "if you look good you will feel good". If I feel good, then my family would reap the benefits.
One of the areas I consistently focus on are my eyebrows. I believe they make or break my look. Fortunately, I have been blessed with well-shaped brows. However, within the last 3 - 4 years, I have had to use an eyebrow pencil to slightly enhance them. I am generally fine with my brows, but there are times when my day becomes hectic and I am unable to tend to them. I do not want to worry about this, so I am considering tattooing my brows.
Eyebrows are so crucial to our beauty. The shape, arch, thickness and color make a significant difference. For many women, tweezing and waxing eyebrows to get the right individual look for you, can wreak havoc on our brows over the years. Eventually, you may find that they just don't look as good as they once did. A great option to the fill-in-the-brows-with-an-eyebrow-pencil look is to tattoo your eyebrows.
Speaking of eyebrows, I love, love, love Meagan Good's brows. She recently admitted, on a daytime talk show, that they are tattooed. In her younger days, she shaved them so frequently they stopped growing. Tattooing her eyebrows was out of necessity.
Actress, Meagan Good
Check out this quick video demonstrating the process:
I am sure you are wondering about the advantages and the disadvantages. Here they are:
Advantages
- no daily maintenance
- perfect eyebrows all day every day
- you'll always look great
Disadvantages
- tattoo is permanent
- tattoo fades over time
- color intensity changes as tattoo fades
I am not going to list any costs because I identified various prices depending on the level and/or location of the salon.
My advice is to conduct thorough research before making the decision to get your eyebrows tattooed. Take time to investigate estheticians' credentials, references and portfolio. Also, visit the establishments to determine their cleanliness and processes relevant to completing this service. Once you have compiled all of your information, make a decision. Decide to do something for yourself and go for it!
So, if you are a mom who has little time to spend on applying makeup but wants to look good every moment of the day (at least with respect to your eyebrows), consider eyebrow tattoos. You will look FABULOUS without doing much.
Permanent makeup is scary to me, especially when it will be applied to my face. However, eyebrow tattooing is one that I will try.
Have I piqued your interest? I hope so. Let me know your thoughts in the comment section below.
To your mommy reinvention,
Sabrina
Suburban Mommy
Monday, February 11, 2013
Fashion and Beauty Blog for the Suburban Mom
Welcome Suburban Moms!
Suburban moms often get a bad rap, but it may be well deserved. Many people have preconceived notions about who is a suburban mom. She may be someone who has traded her powerful corporate position, her chic fashions, her high-heel pumps, her perfectly made up face and her well done nails, all for a great life with her husband and children. This wonderful trade off may have led you to become the mom who has lost her sex appeal and wears sweats and sneakers regularly, Uggs on most days, hair in a ponytail unless you are going out and no makeup when leaving the house. Is this you? Well, it doesn't have to be. Just because you are a Suburban Mom does not mean that you have to lose yourself.
So, if you are tired of not looking and feeling your best and you need guidance to regain your sexy, keep in touch with Suburban Mommy Makeover. I will bring to you product reviews of new and tried & true beauty products and fashion trends that you can really use in your every day life as a mom. I will also share advice from the experts to help you reinvent yourself and add zest to your life. Trust me, when you start to look better, your self-esteem will be elevated and you will feel so much better. The goal is to help you, the Suburban Mom, become the person you've envisioned, while still making your family the priority.
To your mommy reinvention,
Sabrina
Suburban Mommy
Suburban moms often get a bad rap, but it may be well deserved. Many people have preconceived notions about who is a suburban mom. She may be someone who has traded her powerful corporate position, her chic fashions, her high-heel pumps, her perfectly made up face and her well done nails, all for a great life with her husband and children. This wonderful trade off may have led you to become the mom who has lost her sex appeal and wears sweats and sneakers regularly, Uggs on most days, hair in a ponytail unless you are going out and no makeup when leaving the house. Is this you? Well, it doesn't have to be. Just because you are a Suburban Mom does not mean that you have to lose yourself.
So, if you are tired of not looking and feeling your best and you need guidance to regain your sexy, keep in touch with Suburban Mommy Makeover. I will bring to you product reviews of new and tried & true beauty products and fashion trends that you can really use in your every day life as a mom. I will also share advice from the experts to help you reinvent yourself and add zest to your life. Trust me, when you start to look better, your self-esteem will be elevated and you will feel so much better. The goal is to help you, the Suburban Mom, become the person you've envisioned, while still making your family the priority.
To your mommy reinvention,
Suburban Mommy
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